Big Penis Enlargement and Sexual Health Forum

Amber · 11-06-2009, 11:11 PM

Hi everyone! My guy's penis is very curved that the first time we became intimate he was very reluctant to show it. I had to reassure him it was ok and after telling him it was a work of art (hehehe) he was at ease a bit. I thought that there would be no cure for this outside of having surgery or whatever, but as i read through the posts of this forum, there could still be hope to make it straight. The thing is, I want him to try FS but at the same time I don't want him to lose any confidence he has (he's very sensitive about his curved penis) built through my assurance. I want to ask for any suggestions though as to how to subtly suggest that he use these exercises without him going back to being uncomfortable about his penis again. Thnx!

MoreSize · 11-06-2009, 11:27 PM

We men don't understand what women consider subtle. When women think guys suck in bed, they don't say "my teletubby doll can fuck me better than that," they say "that was good" or "I came twice" thinking it's some kind of subtle hint that you're terrible in the sack.

Your example follows the same premise. You've been telling the guy it's great, and it's not. Or so I would assume. You tell any guy that enough and he's going to believe it. By this point he honestly believes you're OK with it, if not prefer it.

You're going to have to straight out tell him you were only worried about bruising his ego and the curved dick isn't going to get the job done. Anything short of that will confuse him since you somehow got him to buy that work of art garbage. The closest thing to "subtle" you're going to get at this point is buying it for him for Christmas with a not so subtle straighten out your humpdick message on the card.

Wait a minute. Something doesn't add up here. You say you're worried about him losing confidence? Since when do women fuck guys with confidence issues?

sniper · 11-07-2009, 04:08 AM

Wow, Maybe I missed something. Did you say you werent happy with his curve? If you were asking cause you know he is unhappy and this could be a way for him to lose some curve, great. I think it is good that you are trying to find ways to help him out. I have a curve too. I know for sure that a sympathetic wife or girlfriend is great. Unless you have a curve you cant believe how hopeless you feel when it happens. I think if you bring it up to him as, hey look at this, I saw this on the internet and you said u wished you could find somethng to try. I think he will be willing to try and if you encourage him in a way where it doesnt sound like you are really wanting him to, then I think he will be ok with it... Like I mentioned, It has really helped my curve and added length that I lost from th e curve. Good luck

kb33 · 11-07-2009, 05:02 AM

If your penis is curved up, couldn't that help you hit the g-spot?

Hambone · 11-07-2009, 08:58 AM

Subtle is best used when you need a job half done.
Lets be realistic here, your worried about his reaction because, peen aside, you like if not love the guy and want him around. Theres just that one things throwing a monkey wrench in it all from being perfect. Ok, heres what you need to do.
Pick some alone time to tell him, Idk ages or living situation but when there is noone around so there isnt the slightest chance of anyone else finding out.
Take a deep breath
Explain to him, in point blank english, *remember sweety were men, for whatever reason things dont sink in correctly sometimes* that while you are ok with the way he is you would like to know if he has ever thought about, or is interested in, taking measures to correct it. Then hash out whatever and tell him about the FS, the community here and the people, like us and especially in the Pyrones section, who have the same issues and goals and that logging in and atleast looking at other peoples progress is free.

Now, boil down all the ways that can go down and theres outcomes that are likely to happen.

He does want to change and theres no issue, show him the forum get him a FS HI5's all around

He gets mad or upset. Personally iv got no advice on this subject as I dont get mad easy and when I do I get over it in 5 minutes anyway, all I can say tho is he might think you were lying when you were trying to make him comfterble but really, he needs to accept it and try and fix it or get used to the idea of white lies

Amber · 11-07-2009, 09:13 AM

Well, Moresize, he is confident in other areas except his penis. I'm not complaining about it, just that I think it could help him feel better if it were. Sniper you nailed it on the head about the hopeless part, I can sense it from him. I'll give your suggestion a go, thanks!

sniper · 11-08-2009, 01:44 AM

Amber, With you trying like you are, dont worry about anything, because he will feel that you are thinking of him. Its an embarrassing thing for a man to feel deformed and with your dick makes it even worse. Having someone showing you it doesnt matter is overwhelming. Good for you and again, good luck...

kb33 · 11-08-2009, 02:45 AM

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Originally Posted by sniper

Amber, With you trying like you are, dont worry about anything, because he will feel that you are thinking of him. Its an embarrassing thing for a man to feel deformed and with your dick makes it even worse. Having someone showing you it doesnt matter is overwhelming. Good for you and again, good luck...

Gave you a bump in rep Sniper. That was a well thought out reply.... Thanks for all your input on this site.

Cliff · 11-08-2009, 04:49 AM

Amber, I can relate with your man a bit.
Try it this way. Sit him down and relate to him. Tell him that you knew how much it bothered him and that touched you. So you did some research on the internet and you just stumbled across this site and after you did some reading, you saw how this device was able to help other men reduce the curve over time. Most guys gained length and girth, too (at this point you might want to really stroke his ego and say something like, "So if you decide to do this, you had better be careful not to get too much bigger or you won't fit in me! just to make him feel better...don't let him think you were looking for something to make him bigger and it just happens to straighten his love muscle!)
Try to let him know that you were just trying to find something to help fix the only thing about him that HE seemed to have a problem with and reassure him that YOU don't have a problem with it.
I think if you approach him that way, you'll be okay.
Then let us do the rest.
We've got a great crew of guys here with a vast amount of knowledge, and we're all laid back easy going peeps. And if he decides that he wants to learn more about the PE side as well, we'll help him with that as well.
Good luck and God bless.

Advggirl · 11-08-2009, 05:43 PM

Talking about dick size has always got me in trouble, unless i was telling someone how big they were... Very tender subject.

sniper · 11-08-2009, 10:15 PM

kb33, Thanks you, I appreciate it.

kb33 · 11-08-2009, 10:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sniper

kb33, Thanks you, I appreciate it.

You got it bud. You always give good info

Amber · 11-09-2009, 01:44 AM

Thanks for your input guys, they're very helpful, i guess all i gotta do now is take a deep breath and talk to him

11-06-2009, 11:11 PM	#1
Amber Junior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7 Credits: 185	suggestions pls Hi everyone! My guy's penis is very curved that the first time we became intimate he was very reluctant to show it. I had to reassure him it was ok and after telling him it was a work of art (hehehe) he was at ease a bit. I thought that there would be no cure for this outside of having surgery or whatever, but as i read through the posts of this forum, there could still be hope to make it straight. The thing is, I want him to try FS but at the same time I don't want him to lose any confidence he has (he's very sensitive about his curved penis) built through my assurance. I want to ask for any suggestions though as to how to subtly suggest that he use these exercises without him going back to being uncomfortable about his penis again. Thnx!

11-06-2009, 11:27 PM	#2
MoreSize Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 280 Credits: 896	We men don't understand what women consider subtle. When women think guys suck in bed, they don't say "my teletubby doll can fuck me better than that," they say "that was good" or "I came twice" thinking it's some kind of subtle hint that you're terrible in the sack. Your example follows the same premise. You've been telling the guy it's great, and it's not. Or so I would assume. You tell any guy that enough and he's going to believe it. By this point he honestly believes you're OK with it, if not prefer it. You're going to have to straight out tell him you were only worried about bruising his ego and the curved dick isn't going to get the job done. Anything short of that will confuse him since you somehow got him to buy that work of art garbage. The closest thing to "subtle" you're going to get at this point is buying it for him for Christmas with a not so subtle straighten out your humpdick message on the card. Wait a minute. Something doesn't add up here. You say you're worried about him losing confidence? Since when do women fuck guys with confidence issues? Last edited by MoreSize; 11-06-2009 at 11:32 PM.

11-07-2009, 08:58 AM	#5
Hambone Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 116 Credits: 1,022	Subtle is best used when you need a job half done. Lets be realistic here, your worried about his reaction because, peen aside, you like if not love the guy and want him around. Theres just that one things throwing a monkey wrench in it all from being perfect. Ok, heres what you need to do. Pick some alone time to tell him, Idk ages or living situation but when there is noone around so there isnt the slightest chance of anyone else finding out. Take a deep breath Explain to him, in point blank english, remember sweety were men, for whatever reason things dont sink in correctly sometimes that while you are ok with the way he is you would like to know if he has ever thought about, or is interested in, taking measures to correct it. Then hash out whatever and tell him about the FS, the community here and the people, like us and especially in the Pyrones section, who have the same issues and goals and that logging in and atleast looking at other peoples progress is free. Now, boil down all the ways that can go down and theres outcomes that are likely to happen. He does want to change and theres no issue, show him the forum get him a FS HI5's all around He gets mad or upset. Personally iv got no advice on this subject as I dont get mad easy and when I do I get over it in 5 minutes anyway, all I can say tho is he might think you were lying when you were trying to make him comfterble but really, he needs to accept it and try and fix it or get used to the idea of white lies __________________ If its after 1AM and im rambling, iv already taken my sleeping pill, it happens. Bare with me ill edit in the morning.

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11-07-2009, 04:08 AM	#3
sniper Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 415 Credits: 3,435	Wow, Maybe I missed something. Did you say you werent happy with his curve? If you were asking cause you know he is unhappy and this could be a way for him to lose some curve, great. I think it is good that you are trying to find ways to help him out. I have a curve too. I know for sure that a sympathetic wife or girlfriend is great. Unless you have a curve you cant believe how hopeless you feel when it happens. I think if you bring it up to him as, hey look at this, I saw this on the internet and you said u wished you could find somethng to try. I think he will be willing to try and if you encourage him in a way where it doesnt sound like you are really wanting him to, then I think he will be ok with it... Like I mentioned, It has really helped my curve and added length that I lost from th e curve. Good luck

11-07-2009, 05:02 AM	#4
kb33 Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 1,529 Credits: 3,231	If your penis is curved up, couldn't that help you hit the g-spot?

11-07-2009, 09:13 AM	#6
Amber Junior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7 Credits: 185	Well, Moresize, he is confident in other areas except his penis. I'm not complaining about it, just that I think it could help him feel better if it were. Sniper you nailed it on the head about the hopeless part, I can sense it from him. I'll give your suggestion a go, thanks!

11-08-2009, 01:44 AM	#7
sniper Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 415 Credits: 3,435	Amber, With you trying like you are, dont worry about anything, because he will feel that you are thinking of him. Its an embarrassing thing for a man to feel deformed and with your dick makes it even worse. Having someone showing you it doesnt matter is overwhelming. Good for you and again, good luck...

11-08-2009, 04:49 AM	#9
Cliff Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 303 Credits: 2,363	Amber, I can relate with your man a bit. Try it this way. Sit him down and relate to him. Tell him that you knew how much it bothered him and that touched you. So you did some research on the internet and you just stumbled across this site and after you did some reading, you saw how this device was able to help other men reduce the curve over time. Most guys gained length and girth, too (at this point you might want to really stroke his ego and say something like, "So if you decide to do this, you had better be careful not to get too much bigger or you won't fit in me! just to make him feel better...don't let him think you were looking for something to make him bigger and it just happens to straighten his love muscle!) Try to let him know that you were just trying to find something to help fix the only thing about him that HE seemed to have a problem with and reassure him that YOU don't have a problem with it. I think if you approach him that way, you'll be okay. Then let us do the rest. We've got a great crew of guys here with a vast amount of knowledge, and we're all laid back easy going peeps. And if he decides that he wants to learn more about the PE side as well, we'll help him with that as well. Good luck and God bless.

11-08-2009, 05:43 PM	#10
Advggirl Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: California Posts: 112 Credits: 1,222	Talking about dick size has always got me in trouble, unless i was telling someone how big they were... Very tender subject.

11-08-2009, 10:15 PM	#11
sniper Senior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 415 Credits: 3,435	kb33, Thanks you, I appreciate it.

11-09-2009, 01:44 AM	#13
Amber Junior Member View myPenis Space Profile Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7 Credits: 185	Thanks for your input guys, they're very helpful, i guess all i gotta do now is take a deep breath and talk to him